Billing is an issue many people complain about. Whether they feel they are not getting the service they expected for what they are being charge, or if the fees went up recently on their services wihtout notification, or simply extra money is not available because bills take up the whole income. It does not matter if I am footing all the costs of my bills or if I have help from let's say...my parents paying part of it...I can still gripe about the high costs of bills.
If a third party agreed to pay in a certain amount toward the bills but things are tight and the third party pays a little less or if suddenly bills have gone up and the third party has to contribute a bit more, could be a stressful topic. If the third person paying is just doing this out of kindness and runs into a tough time and can't help as they usually do, but the original person collecting the gift still needs that help...it could cause stresss to be receiving less than usual.
People need to be able to vent when they feel stressed about something and it may just be the situation itself that is the stressor, but the ability to discuss all people involved in the situation does not mean blame as much as probably general frustration the situation is at hand.
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