I'm thinking of the Linkin Park song, Pushing me Away, for some reason. The corus goes:

"The sacrifice is never knowing
Why I never walked away
Why I played myself this way
And now I see
You're testing me
Pushes me away"

Then there's the remix, in which the corus is:

"The sacrifice is never knowing
Why I stay
When you just push away
No matter what you see
You're still so blind to me"

So, yeah.
The music nerd will leave now.