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Old Apr 02, 2013, 01:04 AM
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Originally Posted by lizardlady View Post
As for those who wonder about adapting the feature to let the person know they are being put on ignore. Seems like a good way to start a firestorm. I see no reason why someone couldn't choose to do that on their own, but I'd rather the feature didn't automatically inform the person.
But the feature does automatically inform the person, just after the fact.

I was ignored by someone I don't even know, after I had written a response to their post. I don't mind that I was ignored, but feel the fool to be the last one to know.

It's not just common courtesy, the "Huh?" of being suddenly locked out gets me wondering what I missed, why didn't I know, what's wrong with me when it is the blocker who should be assuming 100% of the responsibility.

My mental health is important too and it's hurtful to talk behind people's back, so-to-speak, by doing a "Watch this, I've blocked her, she doesn't know it and is probably gonna try and post, tee hee". I have no way to find out I've been blocked from my replying (not the same as their blocking reading me, they can already do that). A person blocking can read, write, block, unblock, whatever. A person blocked can read and then write and then get told, "sorry, you're not wanted here, go somewhere else" (if they'll have you). I would be happy to go play somewhere else but tell me before I try to play with you! I'm reaching out and getting my hand slapped. Am I going to reach out again? What if that next person has blocked me?
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