That's for sure.
What with having BP, it's not quite "on the other side". Except when it is.
It's freaking hard. Just in a different way.
Living with me is no cakewalk either.

As for not making the other person ride the waves with me... I tend to clam up, so a lot does go by unnoticed. But on the bigger ones? Unavoidable. I can't really imagine being them, but it must be quite something. I don't know how they do it. Even experiencing "the other side" with someone else isn't a good measure, as everyone is different in the way things manifest and in how and what they express. I am "subjected" to certain behaviors that I don't subject others to. But I subject them to some which they do not to me.

(I'll stop this linguistic nightmare, and go to sleep now, 'k?)