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Old Apr 02, 2013, 09:05 AM
Rvnmpd Rvnmpd is offline
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Originally Posted by monarch_butterfly View Post
So one of my alters Anna switches with me frequently when I am with or talking to my BF. At first I thought this was because she likes him. But now I am wondering if it is to protect me from him.

As this evening I went to call him and was nervous because I had to politely confront him about something. And right now I am VERY scared of men in general. (That might be coming from the other alter?) Anyway partway through the conversation Anna popped out. BF and I can be talking about anything... and Anna will come. BF and I are having communication issues and I am trying to figure out if he is belittleing me.

Is it possible for an alter to protect you from a person??? And what do I do? I mean my own BF!!! I want to work through things!! Not just drop him!
Alters are truely there to protect you. Some are not so nice about it. They are they because they developed out of neccesity. Unfortunate thay respond to triggers from the past when they are not so useful in the present. For example a bad even =10 in the past (stress), thus any type of high stress or demands cause them to protect the way they did in the present. Only a few alters r relating tomthe here and know