Originally Posted by Perna:
Quote: [it is the blocker who should be assuming 100% of the responsibility.]

herein lays the seed of the answer to your question, Perna. i only block people who are offensive and unabashed by requests for self-containment. so i would say that the person being blocked is the bully, the one at fault. people who don't hear warnings feel "unwarned", but that is rarely true.

i spend my time in chats, rather than in the forums, so i hardly know you, but i have heard this kind of complaint before. it hardly seems fair to abuse someone who has shown already that they are unable to tolerate your behaviors.

i do consider it a personal failure to come to the end of my understanding, my ability to tolerate another, but better to admit defeat than to persevere into distress. i hope you will consider, in the future, how others came to feel the need to block you and perhaps this will help you in your personal growth.

best wishes
Gus