I did move out to a Hotel for a cooling off period, and then decided to get an apartment for 6 months and I did tell her that I just wanted away from her...but I was also still being mean and hateful toward her same as she was to me...but her contention is that since I got the apartment (in order to save money, the hotel was 260/week and apartment was 900/month, and I got the 6 month lease in order to give us time to stop fighting and for me to get the help I needed...) but she decided that was it, I got an apartment so I moved out.