I'm sorry to hear about your divorce. I guess it makes it harder if you haven't had any answers or closure. Have you tried to ask her what the reason for the divorce was? (sorry if I sound patronising I really don't mean to cause you any offensive, some people can't bring themselves to ask and others ask but do not get any answers).

I don't think jumping into another relationship straight away is the best thing to do. I know everyone is different but I think you need to work on mending yourself, take time to do things you like, take up a hobby, spend more time with friends.

It's hard to let go of the routine and life that you built with your partner. Take each day as it comes and I hope you will be able to come out of this and find peace and in time love again. Life is for living e have to try to stay positive. I'm going through a break up myself and I know how hard it is.

It's easy everyone saying these things to you but you yourself have to be ready to take it all in and make the changes in your life. Take control and try to stay positive. You will get through this just give yourself time and smile

Good luck.