I am hoping T can help with this . My intent at the moment is staying married to my H, but that is not certin. I am doing trauma work for me and my future w/ what ever man I am with, my H, a new man after divorce, or no man at all.

I just feel badly for my H and can't seem to get him to understand. I don't even understand either. I just don't know if reclaiming a normal sex life is possible after this kind of event. I don't know if others have insight into that or if there is a T around here somewhere at PC that may respond and let me know if there is even hope.

Just curious. Hamster, Thank you for responding. I value your opinion.