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Originally Posted by evildouble102
I'm wondering how everyone views causal sex.... I made plans spontaneously for such things. I know with men casual sex isn't such a big deal but for women it seems that if they engage in such activities are sluts or *****s. I don't understand this. Anyway I made plans and view it as ok as long as both parties know what they're there for so to speak. That way no one is disappointed if a relationship isn't formed or whatever. I also think it's ok if you are responsible; i.e. using condoms or what not to prevent pregnancy and contracting stds or what not. Advice and comments are appreciated  Thanks!
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hey how's it going? I'm having a hard time right now with casual sex my girlfriend has had not to long before i met her. we were talking on the phone and it came up that she had casual sex with two men after a serious relationship. I was really hurt. I know that most of the hurt is coming from my own unresolved issues, but it is very hard to picture her in my mind doing the things that she and i do in the bedroom with other men. makes me feel like just another one of the guys. i'm working on changing how i feel about it though.