Thanks for your perspective Payne. The car she totaled was 6 years old and she had less than 30K miles on it. She workers, doctors, shops, literally less than a block from where she lives. I understand that just knowing she doesn't have a car right now must be frustrating. But I would expect her to do the bare minimum. I asked her to go to toyota's website to take a virtual tour of the new Rave 4, at least check out the colors that she'd like. She won't even do that. "We'll figure that our when we get there." I don't have that time to waste and she knows that. She also asked "while we're down there can we go..." I said, you'll have a car, if you want to run around after that, that's up to you, but I have stuff to do. She wants me to go with her. I'm perfectly willing to take her whereever she wants to go on April 15th. Until then my time is booked up. It's like she feels that she has to have equal attention.