Simon.. what a pity this had to happen to such a lovely person as yourself...no doubt P hasn't got any idea of how much he hurts people with his actions...what a shame too...

I think you should consider that it is healing to talk openly about your hurts and so you can see it as a step in the right direction.. telling him.. the more you talk about it, the easier it gets and I believe the more free of it you become.. so he still did you a favor by giving you the chance to let it out just a little.
ALways a silver lining....luv ya... Faith