I'd like u and H to be safe And get rid of the art, sounds like fun art creation for a night but ... Please don't risk the temptation if he's feeling Sui . Keep him talking he's probably still processing much from sons surgery and everything ... Keep him talking. I really hope he'll agree to get rid of the sand art, or maybe you should just get rid of it. I care about you both mucho (even tho I don't know him - his poetry was really good, can't forget those). Sending love a d prayers.