Sorry punky that's too harsh of her in my opinion I had an email from my son's teacher earlier this week about how much trouble he's in for calling another 5th grader a name, then to find out my son was kicked in the back by the kid, they don't notify me about that. Then teacher said I need make my son quit swearing and that he's slower to learn than the other boys ... Well yea duh Einstein my boy has learning disability and in special Ed ... Some teachers seem just plain mean! Ugh pisses me off and I totally understand why you'd not bother seeking help, because there's no way to tell what reaction, support, or detrimental power trips you may get from different teachers.

Like any people there are good supportive teachers, evil jerks (extreme of me to say sorry), and everything in between.

Hope you can calm down and rest, remember she can say whatever she thinks but it doesn't make it true. And there's a solution it just may involve careful wording and diplomacy. People here can prob help you well with your response to her if you want, some very smart teachers in the forum here. Hang in there, hopefully you and I both will finally sleep tonight and have a new better day tomorrow.