DE made a very good point about the other person needing the help. when my oldest was in drug treatment, (her father pooh poohed the idea of my husband and i admitting her) the counselors pulled he, myself and my husband into an office and confronted HIM about his alcoholism...............(i know you want to know.. so i'll tell you, he stormed out and went home)

i am really glad that she agreed to seeing the T. it may be a very intense learning session for the both of you.......love, pat