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Originally Posted by BonnieG2010
Did you say that you are sorry? did you try to explain your reasons to her. You may sound casual as you like but must have had reasons for your behavior. They might have been your own or they could have to do with the couple.
You are telling us the facts but there are lots of emotions involved. Did you try to take care of them and clean them up?
Unless they are not cleaned I don't think there will be any peace between the 2 of you.
The old story can aggravate things, she can be saying to herself that she should have known better since then.
She is of course mad at you, but I guess she is even madder at herself
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Bonnie I make certain to apologize any time there is a rucus over what happened. I have apologized so many times even my therapist told me enough already.
I don't mind...but its just that she gets upset and then starts back at day one and runs thru every thing I ever did...paid bills late, didn't get my issues taken care of before we got married....heck at some point I told her I am sorry that I caused Hurricane Sandy to hit NY! She gets on a roll and all I can do is take it and wait till she is done...just NOT when our daughter is around!!!
