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Originally Posted by amee200
Purple, I think you should tell her sooner than later. She has indicated she will be supportive and I'm sure only said you don't need to rush to keep the pressure off of you, that's all. I think when we have these feelings but are unable to talk about them, they are intensified so much that it almost feels unbearable. Once you get your feelings out in the open with her, you may feel relieved and your feelings may even be deflated.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Thanks amee, I think that you are right and I honestly think that it will make our relationship even better. I have such a hard time opening up to her still after two and a half years, but I think that this level of honesty will help me to reach a new level of trust in her. Everything else will seem easier because I think this might be the hardest thing I will ever have to tell her.