Hmm...well, it's a heck of a gamble on my part, but...the pastor?
Will you get a response is a good question...I dunno. It will certainly be an interesting read if he does. I would hope he would realize that in some instances (yours by far being one of them) what must be done must be done. It'd be cruel of him to expect you to remain married in light of all this.
Glad you got all the guns out...I was still worried about that.

Have things been going okay?
Hugs,
Harley
PS: Messianic Judaism...is that simply Judaism with acceptance as Jesus as He's written in the New Testament? lol Not trying to get preachy or nosy (as I read my question to myself, I could see it being interpreted either way), but I've never heard of that (I'm from NC...unfortunately, religious diversity is not a strong suit down here), and I love learning about other faiths.