Canders, the "learning to take a joke better" implies you have a problem. You don't! Not everything is equally funny to each of us and you not "liking" certain jokes (or any) is not your problem! You can state (with authority), "I didn't like that." and there's nothing anyone else can say to argue with it or take advantage of it because it's coming from you and how you feel is 100% yours. Don't do "bother" -- be more serious/"stronger" than that with "don't like" with a look on your face to match so there's no mistake that you don't like it and won't put up with it. You don't have to explain either, it's how you feel, period, end of statement!
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