Hi Kristie,
I am sorry that the dx has been so tough for you to digest-I understand! Please remember though, you are not bipolar, you have bipolar, a dx that can be handled in a healthy way through therapy, a healthy lifestyle, and medication.
Please understand that telling your doctors is a good thing. They need to know how best to treat you.
I would advise that you always share with your medical people, but beyond that, you don't have to share with anyone. You are who you are, before and after the diagnosis.
Many hugs!
Bluemountains