so sorry for the accident and repercussions..... sudden disabling painful lifeshattering accidents really mess up everyhing for a while. it takes a while for everybody to get back to something resembling the "same page".

I had a hopefull flash when you said you were going in for knee replacement in 2 weeks.... sure it's a volutary injury that will heal and make you stronger in the long run, which is not her outlook, but, maybe while you are crippled up too you gyz can moan and groan and curse your rehab together and find a new place to bond and start over in the new here and now.?? maybe???