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Originally Posted by heyitsme7
when somebody disagrees with me, I just want to shut them up. like i don't even want to have a conversation with them because only those who agree with me can keep the conversation going. i feel like i have my views and so do others. but i want to be respectful to people yet it's hard sometimes because i wish people can just conform to my views, which i know, is probably not going to happen and i understand. but when i want to have a conversation where people and I can disagree without having to cut off communication, i can't seem to do it. i like to have it my way.
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That bolded part there ---
Flip it around as if someone trying to conform you To THEIR Views....
Not a nice feeling, and no it probably will not happen.
This is a broad topic.
I agree with Payne1 that we can learn from others with talking to them, taking in their point of views, and
discussing topics to which we may have a strong opinion about.
However, just with me- Personally - I do believe that people that are unable to be open minded, see things from other views, and do not just to think a little on some things-- this can be quite difficult to talk to others.
*Or If you are talking with a person that "Always has to win"... yeah, that gets no where fast.
Open discussions on things I have only found a few people in real life that I have been able to talk about of my own thoughts- and the stars know, some of those topics I would never bring to the table to any open public form/place because some of them are controversial and too many have "set their mind and wont even try for a second to think another way on it".
There are a lot of humans though, that think the way that I have bold of what HeyItsme has stated.
"My way of thinking is the right way of thinking. no one else, everyone else should conform"
Which In *some cases* can be very problematic.
Lest think back to Hitler.....
