Is it an intimate RS though?
IDK, but to me client-T RS is pretty one sided. Even though I share with my T everything he doesn't. I'm pretty sure most Ts would leave some/many thoughts/feelings to themselves and won't share it with the clients (even the ones that selfdisclose a lot).
So no, I wouldn't call it a real intimate RS (though who am I to say esp if it makes you happy). The T's side is restricted- the sex being only one (minor as far as I'm concerned) restriction.

BTW, re his phrasing- we can't, it's a bad idea- I do agree that it sounds like had he met you under different circumstances he wouldn't be against it (i.e. like he had entertained that idea in his mind at least).