Aw, Speed. You just don't deserve this. He isn't right; you know that, and he doesn't know it all.

If you want my honest opinion, I think he's unconsciously trying
to move you away from anything that stirs memories of your son or your grief. He's in grief, too, and is handling it the best way he knows how.

It's your choice about what you want to do in regard to the forum, and people here are not giving you bad advice; they mean well in their efforts to help you get through a traumatic situation. Just be still and know that God is ultimately in control of it all.

Keep up with Daily Devotion if you would like.

Take care and let us hear from you as you wish. Everyone supports you.

Prayer going up now for you to be strong against anger. (Anger is a frustration of the drive for love, Speed, so know that beneath the advice, he is trying to save his love for you.)