Do most men deal with any emotional issue by pretending it's not there?? I've never seen my bf cry, he says he hasn't cried since his dog died, so he didn't cry for his divorce or her miscarriage...

I think I prefer open emotional men.
You don't deserve this b.s. from him, he's being a dufus.

Maybe there's a way to get him to understand ... like a 2x4 upside the... oops kidding...
Seriously, what does he think the hospitalizations have been about??