Hi JC

I'm really sorry that your going through all this. It can't be easy for you. Have you tried talking to your wife calmly when she is relaxing and can give you her full attention. You've really got to make her understand how you are feeling right now. This is probably a time when you would rather have the house to yourselves. Women are normally receptive when men are gentle and honest about their feelings. I hope you will find the right words JC.