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Apr 05, 2013, 09:12 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2012
Location: California
Posts: 2,248
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Syra -- I was more so at a point of frustration. With this T she always had me running in circles and it was like whatever I said she just didn't seem to understand. So I finally gave up because I just didn't have the right words to help her understand me.
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I think I get that. I think I wrote what I did, because there is still a part of me that wishes my old T and I could patch things up. We used to argue about what my problem was (she never did that for the first 2-1/2 years and all of a sudden there we were arguing). And then she started focusing on one thing that wasn't my issue, and telling me what I should do, which I didn't agree with. And whatever I said, she didn't understand, or accept. and I couldn't find the right words either. I wish I could have just walked away like you did. I see such strength. I couldn't do it (she eventually walked away from me.) When she invited me back, together with someone who helped her see what she missed about what I should have done or why I did what I did, I did't go back. It was still about her being in power. It took me a lot longer - and I would probably still go back to try and patch things up - but I'm not so sure now. I really admire your conviction and trusting yourself
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