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Originally Posted by mary123
there IS such stigma and fear. at one point i wanted to start a campaign and educate the world. now, i am terrified of disclosing anything. even if i was say, depressed and on antidepressants, which seems common, i would hesitate. we just aren't treated the same after disclosure.
i thought at one point that if i disclosed up front , then i wouldn't fear being FIRED for having symptoms. now, i think if i disclose my illness i would not be HIRED in the first place! ( i am currently unemployed and am terrified about going back to work soon)
even my therapist told me that i wasn't being realistic about disclosing my illness up front. i couldn't believe she said that! so basically my therapist was telling me to keep my illness a secret. what a bummer that we have to HIDE this. it makes me so sad. 
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Hi Mary,
Thanks so much for sharing. I feel the same way you do, and unfortunately, especially in my situation starting in a small startup company, I really can't disclose. I've never worked in a place with HR.
Even if there was HR though, I do think there is still a negative stigma against us.