Yea, it could be that you weren't ready for groups Fuzzy.

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Could you elaborate on your comment re. "motives" Mandy

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well, my suspicions can get the best of me sometimes, like wondering if someone wants to mimic me and some other things.... I can PM you if you like....

I also meant-- by "motives" being-- "purpose". What are they wanting out of their being there..... and can I help get them whatever it is......

OK-- I'll reveal something about myself -- I do tend to feel I have to take on other's well being, like it's my responsibilty. (maybe I'm trying to make up for those little children I couldn't help when I was a child myself.) It's as if it's up to me to make others lives all right-- which ends up being a huge task that usually results with me in anxiety overload and others misunderstanding me.

I wish you the best Fuzzy.

mandy