Thanks EJ. I needed to hear that. I plan on doing exactly what you said in regards to his Pdoc. I sat in on his first session & I don't think he would object to that.

As far as the officer, I think he meant well & I know he deals with horrific family situations. Coming into my home, where all was calm when he got there (my son is a chameleon - plays whatever role he needs to in order to get what he wants), the officer did not get an accurate picture of what was really the problem. Suggesting a beating, could land my husband in jail. Not understanding the importance of mood stabilizers, which can be life saving, is ignorance on his part.

Today my son is toeing the line, but that usually only lasts a few days before he acts out again.

I'll keep you posted on what the professional says (Pdoc).