I am 61, and nobody questions it! Maybe because I have white hair?? But I know what you mean. I had to get my bus pass replaced because they put the wrong code on it when they renewed it. They put on there that I was poor. I went back and said, I'm not poor, I'm crazy - fix this! Now my bus pass doesn't renew until I'm 65, and does THAT ever get the looks from the drivers!

I would just look at your providers with a straight face and say, I have a disability. Period. I mean, I tell people I'm crazy, but that's because they don't believe me, so it's okay. I think..!