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Originally Posted by liveforfish
I do not know the full story or H background.
Maybe a separation is needed for both of you. It could be temporary or a set time.
Once the separation is done and you live in separate homes, try counseling again. We often see life different when away from the situation. H probably doesn't believe you'll ever leave, thus he will never try to change.
Many pastors will agree with separation vs divorce as a first step.
Prayers to you.
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That could work with a H who has an annoying habit of not taking out trash until 1) the garbage pail is overflowing, or 2) the W reminds him to take the trash out.
So one can argue that H would not change his wicked ways until he is faced with the reality that W might indeed leave him.
Bub's H rapes her - see Bub's post above yours