Well Patty-- can I ask--- Did you teach your daughter to celebrate your birthday? A lot of times once we're adults we act in the way we were taught-- could she be under the impression that you prefer to NOT celebrate your birthday?-- is that what she experienced growing up? If that's the case then I wouldn't be mad or upset with her-- but if it bothers you-- you could mention that you do like to have some acknowledgement of your birthday.... just so she will know for the future.

I think everyone should be celebrated on their birthday--
hope you don't mind me saying----
Happy Birthday Patty!!!