I am married to a man who is one step away from a NPD label. He is VERY difficult to live with. He crushes my self esteem on a regular basis and I can never ask him to do anything for me. OUR WHOLE LIVES ARE ABOUT HIM.

He also has ADD which adds a whole other layer.

I am a flimsy, wimpy, follow along person so our marriage has worked and we have no kids to warp so I just deal with it. Occasionally when I need something we have a huge knock down drag out fight just so I can get what I need and then it is back to being all about him again.

I love him though so I deal with it...

C and Oliver (my Service Dog)