Regarding the period, we have talked about it and it is a eeewww issue lol. When it comes to the flowers and gifts, money isn't the problem. It's a different issue, but I have been known to break it and get her favorite flower for her once or twice, and get her some imported British chocolates (which she loves). I do get to spoil her, as I think all S/O should be spoilt, it's just I want to spoil her more than I am allowed to at this moment in time. When it comes to sex only once a week, it is more a time and alone thing. It is hard for us to get that time, and be alone at the same time. We have tried watching each other online and telling each other what to do, but while I liked it, for her it wasn't so good. Even though it was pleasurable, if that makes sense, and while I like sexting, she only does it to "please" me.