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Originally Posted by nicoleflynn
If you feel that by being "honest" with your t, then there is something wrong. Authenticity/honesty is what it is about. A t isn't supposed to abandon you because of your feelings. They are supposed to help you....with the feelings!
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Thank you nicole and sorry for posting this on the thread --- I'm not wanting to hijack this thread.
I completely get what you are saying and I agree. It's my old thought patterns that get in the way. Honesty with feelings never paid off when I was growing up and I always craved love and attention. I had to lie about my feelings when asked with hopes of getting love and attention.
To have a T that I can tell things to and not be rejected is new territory for me. It both feels wonderful and scary at the same time.