Well to start things off I have been with my bf got almost three years and now we have month old son.. He has been going through a custody battle for almost 4 years for his 10 year old daughter they can't agree apon anything with her well since the very beginning we have noticed that she has had very horrible issues with school and it has just gotten way worse as this situation goes on cant get her mother to send her to school most if the time she has her and his daughter feeds off the fact that she knows her mother won't force her to and if she attends she leaves early because she calls her mother to come get her. Other issues we have with schooling is that her mother is more worried about weather she has her snow suit or after school activities rather then the fact that she is completely failing We have an attrney and we have brought this to his attention well just recently for Easter her mother refused to let us have her for our holiday and come to find out she spent it with the mothers bf who we have found out has a criminal record that we can't get any info about and my bf daughter informed us that she spent the night with her mother at the bf house and that my bf daughter slept in the same bed has him and her mother we informed our lawyer and asked what would happen if we don't send her back he said she would call the cops Can someone tell us what our options are before something horrible happens that will affect her the rest of her life