I do get mixed up with his words sometimes. Like back when the strong transference feelings started, I was testing the water so to speak. I emailed him simply, "Do you care about me" Now I think there is a difference between saying I care about you and I care FOR you. He didn't say FOR, but he did say something that led my mind to think that maybe he did have some feelings for me. He replied to my email saying, "Get Real, If it isn't obvious by now, what do I need to say or do?" This kind of send me in a tailspin at the time. I still think about those words. It was the tone in which they were said, even though emails sometimes miscommunicate tone.