I do not speak from personal experience, because I don't have any (lol) but my thoughts on your last post:

a) sometimes men fib about how big they are.
b) some women like men who are big downstairs.
c) I *think* when some women get older and more experienced, or perhaps after childbirth, the vagina can be looser and perhaps less sensitive in some ways than it was when they were young inexperienced women, and as a result may desire a man who is bigger to give them the same feeling they had when they were younger?