Ya know...he can Think its love. It might be. Lust looks a lot like love though. A twenty two year old, who's to say... But for you, He's A Big Dumb Jerk. Thinking with the wrong head is how I think you say it.
NOT YOUR PROBLEM.
I hope his sorry *** is packed my dear, and you plan to keep your own dreams alive without him. I absolutely think there is something wonderful waiting for you in the future. You just needed to do a little house-keeping to get ready.
It's exciting. It's tragic. But it's gonna get better, that is guaranteed!