**livingmylife. I had the same thing happen at the beginning of my marriage. He wanted to keep being "pals" with an old girlfriend. I didn't care. But when he couldn't bring himself to tell her he was getting married, I thought it was weird. Her feelings mattered a Lot more than mine, his fiance. After a couple more strange encounters, I had enough & then he decided I Had The Problem! and snuck around to call & see her. (he Had to! He didn't want to upset me!!!) Really? Dumb**s!