**jdpeachy ~ UGH! sometimes I get so mad & your situation definitely makes me feel that way. I can hear him now, rationalizing why he should stay it the same house with you).
My husband took off without any warning at all...and returns from time to time to see our son. HE STAYS IN THE GUEST ROOM. If you have enough room, do that. At least you'll have some privacy. He should not expect to use you this way. It's just plain mean!