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Originally Posted by hezaa82
I want to try and invite him to hang out outside of work, but I'm not sure how to approach it. I don't want to scare him off. He kind of keeps me at arms' length sometimes because I scared him badly with my borderline stuff once before. :/
I guess I just have a strong desire to feel important to someone, stemming from my abandonment issues I guess.
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How did you scare him off?
In and of itself, inviting someone to hang out outside of work, if done casually, with grace, and with a forethought (you need to give him an "exit" in the way you invite him), does not qualify as BPD stuff. Unless, of course, it would be another element in a chain of events that has already happened.