Dear Jacq,
I don't think it's you pushing them away really, sometimes it's just timing. I get obessive at times and will invade others space, and than I take a step back a breathe and distract myself with another project of mine for self-improvement/fun a book, a movie, another person, a hotline anything but giving that one person space is important I believe. I feel that it's not you! This other person maybe going through something too difficult to share with anyone else right now and therefore has pushed you away not meaning to unlove you, just to isolate on their own individuality. Very important at times you see.

Now, everyone is different and if this person is truly how you are feeling pushed you away because they want to be mean. Then you have to accept that we are all human and make bad mistakes so you need to forgive them and move on, though I'd say give it time. Meanwhile, be loving to yourself and do not take it personally. I feel the most powerful source in the world is love. Leilee