Well, that seems to be an easily correctable behavioral issue. Can you begin new relationships by sticking to being more conventional about what you talk about?

I am not saying that insanity is a good thing or a bad thing, but it is definitely not the kind of thing that you reveal immediately, unless, and very narrowly unless, you mix entirely with very bohemian people in whose circles having insanity is considered "de riguer."

But the issue is not, "Maybe I should wait for people to want to come to me, instead of the other way around. " - the issue is your failure to stick to the socially appropriate norms of disclosure of personal information during initial interactions.