I was never interested in women, until I had a crush on one when I was 24 or so. I was in a relationship with my boyfriend, so this was a very tricky situation. The chemistry was magic. I now have a crush on another woman and am still with my boyfriend. I know, I'm making life difficult for myself. I know I'm bisexual and my boyfriend says so too ( he found out about the first crush). I also think it's hard to commit to a lesbian lifestyle because society does not yet embrace it entirely. And I do like men too.
Wow - sorry for confusing you further, lol