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Old Apr 09, 2013, 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted by olive98 View Post

i feel guilty when he shows affection to me like i'm cheating n my boss
That is very common - an ill-conceived sense of loyalty. Believe me, it is a very negative approach and it ruins what otherwise can be a good time, makes you forego opportunities with perfectly reasonable and qualified men, etc. etc.

It took me many years to figure out how pernicious this approach is.