This is quite thought provoking for me. I was always the implementer when it came to my own familie's parties... 2 sons and spouse... and I really thought they would learn by doing and also when I urged them to send cards to grandparents etc. HOWEVER it didn't turn out that way. No one IRL celebrates my birthday... I have come to address it as just another day IRL.
(NOW here at PC...they throw a party, but I think it's because some of them are party animals.)
Seeker? I don't see you listed on the calendar, so perhaps you didn't reveal your birthday DATE in your profile, so it didn't show up on DocJohn's list!