rise above them by ignoring their rudeness, they can't help being axxxshles, DennisDonnacha has the right idea, i do the same when people deliberately let the door go on me as i am going through in my wheelchair! it is amazing how many people get embarrassed when they realise others are aware of their actions especially as i don't say it quietly, i make sure all around heard and look up!

on one occasion someone at work was telling me wrong information deliberately so i would mess up, she didn't realise i had done my homework and knew she was persistently telling me i was wrong and her info was right, so in the end i asked the boss outright if .....(what she said) was right because that is what i am being told. I did not say by who i was told, but the boss was fully aware of who it was and by the end of the day this person had been reassigned so she had no need to be in contact with me! we both still had to work together on things later on, so i simply gave no information over the neccessary for the job and double checked or made clear to all involved which info i was given by her by saying i am not sure, i am just going off what i have been told by ......! she soon learnt i was not for messing with as it would always backfire onto herself!!