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Originally Posted by bellywelly
I am a 48 female, I was married for 22 years, split 18months ago and 6 months ago started a new relationship.
This is probably my 4th serious relationship in my life and the first new one in 22 years. But I feel I am acting like a teenager whose heart got broken.
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I think it is good news. It means that you are able to have feelings. The matter of finding the right guy is not
unimportant, but it is SECONDARY - the PRIMARY thing is for you to be able to feel your feelings, form attachments, feel that your heart got broken, etc. It does of course hurt A LOT, but feeling the hurt so strongly speaks to your fine emotional status.
I hope that this take on things can help you feel a slight bit better.